An anectodal little tale about my father (who by the way he fled to Spain and abandoned me and my sister to our fate during the first wave) who tried to convince me to vaxx just because he could score a point in court in the latest (like eleventh) litigation in court with my mother.
He had called the 30th of November, my birthday, which by coincidence I discovered two days later
He said "mY DocToR fRiend VacciNated PeOplE aRe NoT hAving pRoblEms Having BaBies" and after I replied that I had made already my decision, this was his reply :
"do as you please. I will not worry about you anymore, I have understood very well that my son is an ignorant denier. The weekend that the lockdown was decreed I was already in Marbella! And where I live is my cock. During the pandemic, you, your sister and your mom continued to receive the monthly on time. I have not abandoned you without support. And you NEVER even called me to find out if I was alive or in a hospital fighting for my life. But what rapprochement? Regarding your monthly in Brazil, I have done nothing but follow the stipulations of the divorce agreement signed by your mother that you have always told me to respect and the Brazilian law that determines that the obligation to support children ends at 25 or first if the child works. Too bad there is no equal law in Italy to prevent children from turning into parasites of the father. You didn't even tell me that you were going abroad to study and if you went it is thanks to the money that I still pay you to keep you at 26 !! I heard you got Covid from your sister! You did not even deign to write to me to tell me. I wrote to you every day (review the whatsapp dear son), I asked you where you were in the hotel to send you medicines and oximeter but you didn't answer me, you just answered that you were fine and only after I sent you the whatsapp. And my wife stupidly telling me that as soon as you told me where you were I had to catch a flight and go to Barcelona! How silly she was, she still thought that deep down you loved me. But where was Mom when you got infected with Covid in Barcelona? Why didn't she take a plane to bring you money, food and medicine? Why did you stay in Milan 2? PCR is a compulsory expense for travel, I have done several before the vaccine and I already pay you 700 euros a year for travel or entertainment expenses. Shame on you!! You admitted to others that you went to university only because in this way I was obliged to continue to pay you the monthly. But don't you feel like a parasite? Aren't you ashamed at 26 that you're still addicted to the daddy you criticize so much? A son who even tried to cheat his father with university books. For me he was a slap in the face of reality but you made a fool of yourself in front of the professors and the rector. What a shit figure! I never dreamed of doing such a thing to my father. If you despise me so much and have the courage to spit into your plate you should have the balls to finish college quickly and get yourself a job. But noooo it's easier to be supported by dad and insult him via whatsapp. Quiet because in Italy there is no fixed year limit as in Brazil for not receiving a monthly from the father but there is a law and one who at 26 is out of course sooner or later loses the monthly even in Italy if not look for work. And you should worry about looking for a job for you ASAP! Because the more you delay entering the job market, the more difficult it will be to find it. At 26 I was already working and supporting myself and your mother. On my last birthday, I called you on the phone to congratulate you and, foolishly, to beg you to vaccinate when 6 months pass from the infection. In the previous one, during the pandemic, I sent you an email yes, coincidentally the year you tried to steal my money by sending me a fake list of books for a much higher amount than the real one. And then from which pulpit? In 4 years you have never even once made me wishes for a birthday or a Christmas !!! But what attempts to reconcile? The day of your judgment in court of which I, without any obligation, I shared the expense of Vanni with your mother, I came to hug you because you were not in jail and after listening to my wife and giving up a honeymoon day to be present at the verdict you, in front of Vanni, greeted me with a "hello Fabio" like now instead of "dad". Every time you tried to "make up" with me, you did it to ask for money. The "prodigal" son who after 7 or 8 years makes me wishes for Father's Day (I almost fell off my chair) and the same day asks me to buy him the laptop and not one like the one I bought your sister ... noooo it must be what YOU wanted with the features that someone had "recommended" that cost twice as much and was not absolutely necessary to do remote lessons. Anyway, even without any obligation since my laptop, which is older than yours, works very well for videoconferencing, I offered to share the expense with your mother. Make sure you study and graduate quickly and find a job. You should be ashamed at 26 that you still depend on your father who works 12/14 hours a day to keep a 26-year-old like you spitting into the plate of those who feed him. Let's see if you have the balls to work 12 hours a day like I do at 59. And from now on, do me a favor not to write to me again since you did not even when you caught Covid. Forget about me. Unfortunately it won't really be possible until you receive the monthly from me. Then when you work you can forget that you have a father who gave you everything and console you with mommy, your tube psychologist and his son "personal trainer and counselor" who instead of encouraging you to grow have always blamed me for all your problems and stroked his head. Too bad there are two parents and children as well. And thank goodness your sister didn't go to your psychologist and she will surely look for a job and she won't let her father support her until she is 26. However, I hope that you do not take Covid again, also because you will be forced to do it willy-nilly just to leave the house. Greetings from Fabio as you call me with contempt."
So, I get all of his vitriolic anger and lies to guilt trip me.And then he blocked me on Whatsapp.
Few days later comes he unblocks me but doesn't write anything.
Come 31st of December and he doesn't EVEN WRITE TO ME "SORRY FOR WHAT I SAID"
NO.
He send me a link (see below) to wish me happy me new year. Not even the effort to write or call me.
I just forwarded the wall text back to him and blocked him afterwards.
He already broke me down and denigrated me for 17 years, I wasn't going to have the eve of 2022 also ruined.
