I mixed names up.
But this isn't a two sided situation as you insist. Over here in reality, people recognize that there is an entire spectrum of support, Neutrality and being outright against, aiding Ukraine.
One could be for sending just money. Or for money and weapons. Or boots on the ground. Or staying out entirely. Or aiding Russia, or even putting boots on the ground in Russia. This isn't black and white.
This isn't "you're with us or against us." Remaining neutral is not pro Russia. Many people were for supporting Ukrain up to a point. This isn't pro Russia. Many people were for supporting Ukraine until we started sending weapons. This is not pro Russia. Many people feel this is Europe's fight and that European countries should pitch in more, because the US has contributed more than the rest of them combined. This is not pro Russia.
The "with us or against us" stance is stupid. This is not a two sided coin no matter how badly you want it to be. You only make yourself look stupid, even to many who support Ukraine aid, by insisting this is the case.
This situation has nuance and a wide array of positions that can be held. By your logic, someone who has been all for funding Ukraine but thinks it's time for Europe to up their game, is pro Russia. That's stupid.
Let me awl you, bacle, and this isn't a hypothetical question: do you support the US deploying troops in Ukraine?
First, so we do not play any word games, do you consider the current US footprint in Ukraine, as in Embassy Guards and people overseeing the logistics transfers of weapons aid, to be 'deployed troops'?
I do not consider them as such, but have seen people disingenuously argue they could as 'boots on the ground already'.
Now if you mean actual formal troop deployments to combat the Russians in Ukraine, that is a separate issue. I think the US and Ukraine benefit more from the US keeping aid up and not deploying directly into Ukraine, for a few reasons:
1) Dead US soldiers, formally sent to Ukraine to fight on the front would only hurt US public support, due to the influence of Russian info ops and the US public's aversion to 'normal' causality figures for large scale combined arms warfare. People from the US volunteering as private individuals with the international legion or the like makes more of a difference than formal US troops, in terms of morale for Ukraine and casualty aversion from the west.
2) It keeps the Russian simps in some NATO nations (Hungary, Germany, Turkey to a degree) from being able to use NATO rules from holding up aid or actions more than they already have. Trying to put NATO troops in Ukraine, at least US NATO troops, would only make it harder to break the simps of their ties to Russia, and may fracture NATO.
3) I don't think US troops on the field would necessarily make things happen faster for Ukraine than they are now, with the mess of DC politics as is and the nature of the ground war as is. If we had a semi-united situation in DC, and less successful Russian, Iranian, and CCP influence ops affecting the west, maybe this would be different.
If any NATO/Western military goes into Ukraine, I actually expect it would be the UK or Poland that would be the best options. Brits don't have the same issues with Russian influence ops, have looser Rules of Engagement, and don't have to report to Congress. As for Poland, well, they as a nation know better than most what it means to be under the Russian thumb, and have better grasp on the realities of living/working/fighting in eastern Europe against the Russians.
However the idea that there is a 'neutral position' on what Russia has done to Ukraine, and been doing not just since 2022 but 2014, and frankly going all the way back to the Holomodor and earlier...no.
I understand he desire for a third position, I even remember thinking myself back then the way you currently are thinking now, back before the invasion actually kicked off, because I thought Russia would roll Ukraine in a few days in a serious fight.
Then Zelensky came out with his 'I need ammo, not a ride' quote, the bubushka's telling Russian soldiers to take sunflower seeds so something would sprout where they died began happening, Russian rolled tanks/troops into Chernobyl without even giving them maps/telling them where they were, and the Russian's proved they are not the vaunted Red Army that would roll to the Polish border in a few days. Putin and Russia also proved they could not be trusted to hold to any agreement, and that any negotiation was just buying time for them to rearm and rebuild or spin propaganda. The neo-cons were proven right about Russia, Iran, and the CCP in what happened, though. I wish Bush Jr. hadn't wasted so much US blood and international good will on invading/propping up Iraq, we might have avoided this if not for that bit of stupidity and weakening of the US position as a moral actor. Biden's fuck up in A-stan didn't help either.
My positions and views changed because the world changed (or more like reverted to the pre-WW2 norm), and proved the old illusions about US isolationism as nonviable in the modern day, and that Putin/Russia as a rational actors were hollow lies, like so many of the ideals/views pushed on the kids of the 90s by overly optimistic Boomer parents. Old world blood and feuds don't disappear because the US public is in a semi-delusional bubble about 'the end of history', and the US is part of that world now to a degree we cannot just ignore it to focus on domestic issues.