That sounds like something someone with
Stockholm syndrome would say.
To be fair. stockholm is extremely misrepresented in media. and also somehow presented as something bad.
It is not "people simping for those who harm them".
Stockholm syndrome explicitly stipulates a bunch of requirements before someone sympathizes with their kidnappers. including:
being treated well, talk to each other often, long period of time, seeing each other face, 1 on 1 interaction, and a bunch of other qualifiers.
At which point... the napper will develop sympathy for the napee (stockholm) and vice versa (lima syndrome). as they come to view each other as people.
and all I can say is "duh". of course in such a situation people would start seeing each other's perspective and will develop sympathy. often resulting in *shocked gasp*... the naper voluntarily releasing the napee, and the napee refusing to press charges. how "horrible"
People have been trying to tie this to abusive relationships or brainwashing... which is really stupid because cult indoctrination and and trauma bonding are completely different things then showing some basic human empathy to a fellow human being despite being in a situation where they are allegedly your "enemy"