The gender is the only thing relevant in wether or not it's gay. It doesnt matter if you only had sex with a man because they were blonde thats still gay I cant even believe I've found anyone seriously indulging this kind of thinking.
Being forced to do something is not the same as doing something thats pedantic as fuck.
I agree Gender is all that's relevant relevant in determining whether or not it's gay. Thank you for reinforcing the point. Gender is all that matters in determining if something is gay. In this instance the attraction has
nothing to do with gender, so I'm glad we can finally agree that it's not gay.
If you want to get technical, a man raping a boy may be a "homosexual act," by strictly technical terms, but as that study pointed out, for a lot of pedophiles, they're actually attracted to adult women. When they are attracted to children, it has nothing to do with gender, they'd go for either gender.
It's CHILDREN they are attracted to. This supercedes the gender because the GENDER that they are attracted to is FEMALE. with their pedophilia, they aren't attracted to the gender. That's not gay. That's pedophilia. You just want it to be gay, because you want to have a smear against gay people for this argument, but you keep being told that their attraction toward children has NOTHING to do with homosexuality.
you used blonde as an example. If someone had an extreme blonde fetish where they wanted to fuck everyone who was blonde, he may partake in homosexual acts, and I'd call him at least bisexual, but the driver isn't attraction to men. he might otherwise be straight but just reallllly fetishises blondes.
The thing is, with the pedophile, the testosterone hasn't kicked in yet. Boys and girls are very similar up to a certain age, and that study is pointing out that when it comes to adults, a lot of these pedos have straight preferences while not having gendered preferences toward children.
Calling those people gay just so you can say "see look, gays are degenerates and pedophiles," is dishonest as fuck.
Why do you want to smear the gays so badly?
And you keep saying you're talking just like normal people in person. Idk who you're hanging around with in person, but I have a word for people who act how I've see you recently acting, when I run into them in person. It's "asshole," and I tend to avoid having conversations with them entirely.
Seriously. I've known you online for years and you can be crass, but lately most of the time I see you on here you're being a complete dick to whoever you're talking with. You don't have to take my advice, but I'd recommend changing your attitude by 180 degrees if you want to have meaningful conversations.
We can discuss and disagree on things without being rude to one another.
Sorry mods if you think this is flaming, or breaking civility rules, but I consider it user intervention and have considered absenseofmalice an online friend for a few years. I think he can handle some advice. whether he decides to take the advice or not is on him.