Western civilization is already in decline, and the thing the MGTOW way offers (at least the rational part of it) is entirely about allowing men to lead happy lives on their own by focusing on things that make them happy.
Yes, Western civilization is in decline and we want to stop that right? Men going their own way isn't going to help stop that decline, it will only speed it along. Also, I can't speak for everybody, but I suspect that most men aren't going to be happy to live like monks, unless they actually have that religious dedication to motivate the monastic lifestyle. It's not like avoiding women is even going to be that easy these days anyway. Men who work are still going to have female coworkers who can exploit these issues to get ahead or hurt their rivals, even if guys completely leave them alone.
Keeping your head down and avoiding danger isn't actually even that safe when society is getting worse, all that it takes for evil to thrive is for good men to do nothing, as the saying goes.
Basically impossible. The types who need to be "red-pilled" are exactly the types who won't listen to a man about anything, and most of them won't even listen to other women, they'll simply say that such women suffer from "internalized misogyny" and treat them essentially like traitors. In the meantime, relationships in general are a pretty big risk, and for those of us who have seen the misfortune of others, there are a lot of incentives to not even bother.
The women who need to be red pilled aren't the fanatics. You're not going to red pill Trigglypuff. The women that men can influence are going to be the moderates, who aren't feminist fanatics but are still under the influence of today's dominant leftist society. There are other females whose minds can be changed - little girls. Little boys too for that matter. Which is why it's so important for conservatives, especially smart ones, to have kids who they can instill good values into.
Yeah right, they'll just screech about getting "mansplained" to, and make it out like they're being harassed or some bullshit like that. Other women are the only ones who can really turn this around, because they are living proof against the narrative the social justice types like to repeat over and over again. And really society as a whole, and the government in particular, needs to start standing up to these people and actually enforcing all of these anti-discrimination laws we have on the books.
Once again, hard core feminists aren't going to change. You don't want to date them anyway. Moderates though, they are a different matter. You don't just walk up to random women and explain why feminism is bad. You hang out with women who are decent people, you have conversations with them, you respectfully but confidently express your opinions, over time you make a difference. Especially if it is a woman you are dating and who has an interest in you.
Given some of the other things you've said, I can't help but think you're projecting a bit here.
Am I projecting? I don't think so but it's possible. I suppose any time anyone makes broad generalizations about society they probably include some of their own biases and emotional baggage. I do admit that I was left leaning before meeting my husband and over time I became a right winger in large part because of his influence. All of us are products of our environment and I admit that if I had different people in my life I might have turned out differently, even to the point of having different fundamental beliefs about the world. That idea likely extends to most people even if they don't like to admit it.
Really, in the scheme of things, my beliefs run really counter to most of what I was taught growing up and from the influence of most of my peers. I've still been influenced though, as we all likely have.
When I make sweeping statements about women conforming to authority, I do so more based on my observations of society, where women are far more likely to parrot those viewpoints shown on TV, by university professors, by teachers, by celebrities, by their peers, and so on. Most people who have unpopular beliefs, whose ideology runs counter to authority figures in those people's lives, they tend to be men. Very often when I encounter women with alternative and/or unpopular beliefs, there is at least the influence of some relatively strong willed man with a similar belief be it a father, friend, or husband. Am I letting my biases influence my beliefs on this? Probably so, how can anyone not? But I try to think of my own life as but a single data point among numerous other observations and the observations of others who I trust.