Yeeah, that's why they're going to be including "gender affirmation surgery" in the medical benefits package. Do you know what that means? That's the newspeak term for some mental case paying to have their bits loped off and replaced with a cyst.
Yeah, I sure as shit haven't. Why would I want to help kill some group of stupid weird desert people on the other side of the planet on behalf of another group of stupid weird desert people on the other side of the planet? Our people's enemies are already here.
See, that's the issue. I think you're absurdly loyal to an idealization of the institution you're in, because you've got to believe in what you do, when it's at best half-dead and has been hijacked by the same cancer as most other institutions have been. I agree with you that this is not some impending massive shift, that 15k people is a small fraction of the military and, even scaling that 8 mil up to that number, 80 million would be a small fraction of the military budget. But you can't paint something with shit and not expect rot to set in eventually. And the little things add up, this is not the first and it won't be the last.
And lastly, they don't really need any sort of large shift- The military marched kids into school at bayonet point on the orders of the government back in the 60s. It's already loyal. Oh, I'm sure there are plenty of based enlisted and low-level officers, but everything that requires congressional approval and above can be assumed totally rotted.