I think this connects to our talk awhile back regarding feminists and their attempt to change beauty standards
All the butch, fat, androgynous-masculine body figures are their projection and them getting real self conscious, some ahead of time before their fertile years even end
Feminists tried to change beauty standards for several different reasons.
- There is the formal decorum of men treating women with respect, not just as playthings. This is a longstanding social value, whether it was embraced or not. It goes back and forth in the social consciousness. Impart, Feminists are responding to the sexual revolution's encouragement of loose women.
- It is a struggle against loose women. And not necessarily a prudish one, though it can be. Women who don't want to take the risk of having a fatherless child or getting a disease or who come from a respectable family and wish to maintain that image are not going to want to have to deal with men who think they should drop panties on the first date. Meanwhile, there are plenty of women who for their own reasons, absolutely will. Because they don't know about contraception, have no access, are against it on principal, want to entrap the man, or are too ignorant to use it. And men will generally go for the quick and free sex that presents itself. Even if they know there are strings attached. Hell, sometimes because they know there might be strings attached.
- Those same women who want respectability want to be able to carry it over into parenthood. When women do get hitched and have kids, their social power skyrockets and unlike unmarried women, it does not go away. Oh sure, their looks and sexuality fade, but they now have a husband. That gives her the same access to material power and resources as he does, so long as the marriage lasts. It gives her access to other women within his social circle and she naturally expands and strengthens it. Think Hillary Clinton; without Old Willy, she wouldn't be the major player that she is. But after she had access to her husband's power and resources, she became a power in her own right. So ensuring that men act with a degree of decorum for the "happily ever after" is also in their interest.
- Women who are ugly want to undermine women who are beautiful.
Because let’s face it, even at a younger age, not all women are pretty and the effort is “too much” and they know they will grow old and the fact that men look at prettier feminine younger women.....even fictional ones
Yes, but they are also able to settle for the lower-rung men. And make no mistake; even if men WANT hotter women, they will settle. I've seen guys with absolute dogs. Guys who could get something better. But because the women in their league are also looking for something better and those men don't respect themselves enough, they end up with something I wouldn't hand over to a wild hog to hump.
Really helps with their anger.
I think we're moving into broad brush territory.
Feminists want different things. Look at Anita. Wears make-up. Fashionable, form-fitting clothes. The truth is that they're either been unfortunate in romance or they have trouble in long-lasting relationships and hence probably feel used up. And of course, you do have women who are horribly overweight and think that if they demand things loud enough, men will change their sexual drives and they'll get better men. And of course others are dikes who just want to undercut men so they can get more women.
Plus having kids makes them older, both due to responsibilities and not being able to enjoy luxuries as much....not rven going to the effort of finding a pseudo balance
I think that's a minority. Although I do hear a lot of women talking about how they don't want women, especially the younger ones--I don't think they honestly believe it. I think they've decided that it's a bridge they'll cross later and they don't want to scare away a man or alienate themselves from their social life, without realizing that while children do change their life, it is not the end of your life and it does not mean you'll grow up miserable. There is a difference between a difficult life and a miserable life. It can be mutual, but you can also lead an easy life and be very, very miserable.