I'm not sharing that with my wife. Her response would start with "bitch, please" if she's feeling polite. I do not want to know just how upset she has to be when she'll use the N-word in a distasteful way instead of a that's just another word way.*
* She's black and the N-word needs a whole lot of context before you can tell if someone is using it in a "gimme a hug" friendly way or a "I wish they'd have thrown away the key" unfriendly manner.
Um yeah I grew up in the barrio and lived in the ghetto, some one putting their hands on you if your not close friends expecially putting it on the mouth is a very good way to start a fight. I just looked at that and winced because every time I saw some one stupid enough to do that in the past it got real very fast.