Dont go walk up and try and talk to a woman. All men are a part of a problem and need to do better. Its talking down to men as toxically masculine. Meanwhile they also did this.
If you're talking about the interested guy approaching the woman walking by and getting stopped by another guy, no, I didn't consider that "toxic" behavior needing to be stopped, and it was definitely one of the bits in the ad that was not thought through. I got the context that the guy was leering at the woman and was going to bug her, but they really should've made it a bit more clear. A whistle or something.
OTOH, calling for guys to be careful of not letting things get toxic, of not ignoring the boy pushing another one down and just calling it "Boys will be boys", I don't see that as "we're all a part of the problem", I see that as encouraging people to not be complacent about these things. There is such a thing as toxic masculinity, and it should be watched for.
That is just me, of course, and clearly others felt the video was being condescending to them.
Men, you need to be better and do better. Also slay queen, healthy at any size! Adding to and glorifying a movement to have acceptance for horrible health issues and not work to fix them in any way shape or form, but instead embrace your early demise because its good to never think you have a problem ever. Unless you are a masculine man, then thats all you should think about is how bad you are.
Ugh, this.
Listen, I'm fat. I've been fat since I was a kid. I was verbally and even physically abused in school by classmates for being the fat kid (and especially the fat Christian kid who thought fighting back was wrong, go tell the teachers... oh, the principal can't do anything because I didn't have witnesses, 'your word against theirs'). I understand the "fatshaming" thing and the desire to not demean and dehumanize the obese.
But they take it way too fucking far. I don't want to be bullied or treated like crap, but at the same time, I'm not fucking healthy. I struggle with my impulses and often lose, and odds are it's gonna kill me one day. I do
not want people trying to say it's
okay to be fat. It's not. It's not okay to bully or harrass or abuse fat people, but being fat shouldn't be glorified either.
So on this, yes, Gillette's ads like this, and this entire fad, should die before it causes actual people to die.