You can do better for yourself than bitterness and loneliness and misery.
If divorce laws were not as horrible as they were Robbin Williams wouldn't have killed himself.
You can do better for yourself than bitterness and loneliness and misery.
No you don't get it, just roll the dice a thousand times and pray that you never roll a 1!If divorce laws were not as horrible as they were Robbin Williams wouldn't have killed himself.
I'm not lonely or miserable though, so your thesis has failed pretty badly. :V
If divorce laws were not as horrible as they were Robbin Williams wouldn't have killed himself.
You're asking what has divorce got to do with marriage???What an idiotic thing to say. And what does that have to do with anything I've said?
You're asking what has divorce got to do with marriage???
Cherico's point is that if a great comedian like Robbin Williams can get snubbed by women, the layman stands no chance. :VI wasn't talking about marriage or divorce in the post @Cherico replied to. I addressed divorce at the very start of the thread, and if any of you want to engage with what I said there, that would be great! But for where the flow of the discussion is currently, that was a really incoherent (and idiotic) thing to say.
Cherico's point is that if a great comedian like Robbin Williams can get snubbed by women, the layman stands no chance. :V
Nothing is inherently wrong with marriage.
But modern marriages+modern women makes it too risky. Certainly a lot of men have happy lives married to their wives.
But for the love of god learn what risk assessment and risk management strategies are, if something has even the tiniest chance of causing irreversible harm, KEEP AN EYE OUT FOR IT.
If the penalty to a fucked up bitchy wife or marriage was a slap on the wrist, people would be trying daily. But all it takes is that one bitchy karen of a woman to yell 'rape' because you asked her out, and there goes your life. All it takes is one bitchy hoe thinking 'huh maybe Chad's dick is bigger, bye bye hubby lets get divorced' to take half your shit and more.
You don't have to approve of that line of thinking, but at the very least you could comprehend it. I comprehend your arguments even if I disagree with them.
Yeah I get it, a lot of men are a bit cowardly and don't know where to find a good trustworthy wife. As if that's somehow their problem for daring to be born with a rod between their legs instead of being born on 'tutorial mode'. Sure not every woman is not actually a 'soulless vapid automaton', but there's a reason we use generalizations for a larger group, because otherwise you cannot say ANYTHING ABOUT THEM REASONABLY
Stargazer fairly clearly understands your line of thinking, that's not the problem here.You don't have to approve of that line of thinking, but at the very least you could comprehend it. I comprehend your arguments even if I disagree with them.
The problem here, is that you are not understanding his.No you don't get it, just roll the dice a thousand times and pray that you never roll a 1!
When it comes to such women, it is far better for men to let them sabotage themselves, than cater to their shallow whims and abase themselves trying to reach unrealistic standards.There’s also the issue of women having unrealistic expectations when it comes to both the body type they want their man to have…and how much money he needs to be making. Which these days tends to turn into the many they end up spending on themselves on top of whatever they make.
There’s also the issue of women having unrealistic expectations when it comes to both the body type they want their man to have…and how much money he needs to be making. Which these days tends to turn into the many they end up spending on themselves on top of whatever they make.
Trying to find a good, traditional woman with high morals in a place like a church would be an ideal place to start, but the question is, are there more church attendances or are there less these days? Even trying to make friends with the opposite sex in a place like colleges and universities have their own set of pitfalls as well.
The rise and growth of certain YouTube channels like Man Guide and Manosphere Highlights Daily have also explained the sad state of today's dating, and the main reasoning for the rise of the Passport Bros.
I'm going to echo this."Are there more church attendances"? I'm not really sure what you mean by that or what your point is. Colleges and universities are likely just as bad as the bar or club scene, possibly worse.
YouTube channels channels like that are part of the problem. It's filtered to show you the absolute worst so it gets views. And they likely never bother going places like church or religious organizations in search of women who are themselves looking for healthy, long term relationships. It's all about the casual dating and hookup scene, which no one advocating for marriage would recommend anyways.
I'm going to echo this.
Do these Youtube Channels even mention trying to find a woman at a Church, much less explore it in some real depth, or is it just 'The bar/secular dating scene is terrible,' which literally has been the state of things since the sexual revolution began?
The Lotus Eaters video briefly mentioned church, just to write it off as church attendance being "in the toilet". Here's the thing - if you're the kind of man a church woman would find attractive, you would go to church anyways, regardless of general attendance or if there are available women there. The real reason they wrote it off is because neither of them probably go to church or have much interest in going to church on their own. They just can't speak to that social environment.
We have had a religious revival in awhile but I see one comming soon. Peoples lives are honestly depressing crushing and soul devouringly lonely and empty and religion will likely fill it again soon. Which will be something the current managerial elite will freak out hard about.
We have had a religious revival in awhile but I see one comming soon. Peoples lives are honestly depressing crushing and soul devouringly lonely and empty and religion will likely fill it again soon. Which will be something the current managerial elite will freak out hard about.