Given that you think the Republic was destroyed in that war (and appear to dislike that), I'm surprised you don't hate Lee most of all. Had he commanded the Army of the Potomac instead of the Army of Northern Virginia, the war would probably have ended a lot sooner and with a lot less cost in lives, treasure, and 'destruction of the Republic'. Instead he decided that loyalty to his state demanded treason to his country and only ended up maximizing the damage done to both.
Lee was loyal to his state to the bitter end, an ancestor of mine fought and died in a very similar situation and he did it against his own kin. I can at least respect the man for sticking to his guns.
Lincoln was going to tyrannize and Federalize the Country no matter what, the war could have ended after the first year and America would still be on the road to oligarchy and an illegitimate President following a coup de'tat.
There was no way, the ACW was ever going to end with anything other than the Federal Government taking extreme amounts of power and setting the stage for the death of Liberty. Lincoln was an authoritarian monster and Davis may be, possibly the most useful idiot in the last five centuries.
Here's the thing about historical figures I like honoring: even if they did do bad, they also did a lot of good. I don't need to honor just perfect people. Cause risk. Good they did mostly outshines the horrors. Also, Grant's depiction as a butcher is overblown. He just knew that his winning advantage vs. Lee was attrition, and fought to secure victory.
There is no objective difference between Oliver Cromwell, Maximilian Robespierre and Abraham Lincoln.
They're all cut from the same depraved cloth...
As for Lincoln being the foundation for what would come with FDR, he didn't have much of a choice, and I'd blame others more, as well as railroads, cars, and radio getting rid of borders.
Lincoln could have allowed the South to secede while totally refusing to recognize it. Then committed a total trade embargo on the south/funding slave rebellions and insurgencies by religious fanatics within the South..Like the radical Republicans were doing any way. The whole of the South would have eventually descended into total anarchy and then you move in using local militias supported by Federal troops to restore order.
Hell he could have declared war as he did OTL yet done so without the grotesque abuse of his office and the proto surveillance state.
Also, Lee was a sack of shit too who was brutal to his slaves.
But more, I'm not talking about people here, but sides. And in this rare case, there was a moral and immoral side. And glorifying that side is wrong.
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Any way..both sides were equally immoral, one fought for slavery and the other was run by a guy who in a debate with Douglas said he would deport all blacks to Africa if he could find a way to do it cheaply and his second most important General was a guy Adolf Eichman and Hydrich both sourced when coming up with the holocaust.
The South fought an idiotic battle to protect a method of agriculture that was obsolete by that point for the better part of a century and hinged their entire cultural wagon to that wildly unstable horse and ran themselves headlong into a cultural genocide as a result.
There is no good..Only bad.
Confederate soldiers deserve to be celebrated as American heroes, they at least fought for their homes even if their leaders fought to keep humans as farming equipment....The Union fought to impose oligarchy on the masses and began the horrific American trend of "lets just import enough foreigners to solve our current social ills in the temporary, surface deep sense! Surely nothing can go wrong!"