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King Arts

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@King Arts brought it up randomly in the other thread too. He seems to have a weird fixation on the idea that polygamy is not forbidden in the Bible.
Actually I did not bring up polygamy. I made a joke about harems and women dressing up like Jazmine from Aladdin, because someone posted about a porn video with Muslim ladies. Then someone else brought up the polygamy causing problems. Then I continued the debate.
 
Actually I did not bring up polygamy. I made a joke about harems and women dressing up like Jazmine from Aladdin, because someone posted about a porn video with Muslim ladies. Then someone else brought up the polygamy causing problems. Then I continued the debate.

It's a very weird thing to defend King, especially so vehemently.
 

Stargazer

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The Bible does not say that having more than one wife brings reproach. Moses had at least two wives Zepporah and a Kushite woman The video goes over this. You need to define what you mean by reproach.

It is being used to indicate that the person is squeaky clean and society has nothing they can say that's bad about him. Same reason why there are also restrictions on the wealth of kings in the old testament they are told not to have too many horses. But it does not give a certain ammount. It looks bad for a person to have great wealth because you can point to them being greedy. A Bishop is supposed to represent the Church, in the time period Paul was talking the Romans liked monogomy and disliked polygamy. That does not mean that God's law forbids polygamy.

One, saying Moses had two wives simultaneously because of the reference to him having a Cushite as a wife is a reach. There is never a reference to Moses having multiple wives. The Cushite wife may not have been Zipporah, his Midianite wife, but Zipporah may have passed away and Moses could have remarried.

If you need a definition of "reproach", here's one: "a cause or occasion of blame, discredit, or disgrace."

Two, you are being dishonest. You are saying the person is "squeaky clean and society has nothing to complain about" as if that contradicts what I'm saying. That's not the actual word uses in the Bible, though. What is the actual phrase used in English translations of the Bible? Say it.

Three, are the other qualifications Paul gives to overseers specific to the time period and culture as well? Was it only important to not be a drunkard, or a lover of money, because they were overseers and in Roman society? Is it ok for other Christians to be those things? Of course not. And it's not ok for them to be the husband of more than one wife, either. We can safely conclude this from Biblical teaching, without resorting to extra-Biblical tradition.
 
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LordsFire

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So me using Church tradition as an argument isn't persuasive to them. That's why I argue from a sola scriptura perspective to defeat the concept, because under the Bible alone you can make an argument for polygamy being ok.
And if you're willing to make facetious arguments, you can argue that the Bible teaches meat is murder, that the Earth is flat, etc, etc.

Just because people can make 'an argument' doesn't mean it's credible or made in good faith.
 

Husky_Khan

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This is surreal. I assumed they were troll accounts but I follow some trad type accounts and sometimes there are these weird "Christian/Trad" accounts in their replies telling them that they should stop being so narcissistic and how being a second or third or fourth wife is great and how King Solomon had multiple wives etc. I thought it was trolling... and it probably is... or just people perving out (or both) but maybe... just maybe, we got that non-Mormon (and non-ironic) Christian polygamist demo out there. :p
 

King Arts

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It's a very weird thing to defend King, especially so vehemently.
I don't think it's a weird thing to argue for? I mean alot of this board is made up of political/philosophical/theological debates.

One, saying Moses had two wives simultaneously because of the reference to him having a Cushite as a wife is a reach. There is never a reference to Moses having multiple wives. The Cushite wife may not have been Zipporah, his Midianite wife, but Zipporah may have passed away and Moses could have remarried.

If you need a definition of "reproach", here's one: "a cause or occasion of blame, discredit, or disgrace."

Two, you are being dishonest. You are saying the person is "squeaky clean and society has nothing to complain about" as if that contradicts what I'm saying. That's not the actual word uses in the Bible, though. What is the actual phrase used in English translations of the Bible? Say it.

Three, are the other qualifications Paul gives to overseers specific to the time period and culture as well? Was it only important to not be a drunkard, or a lover of money, because they were overseers and in Roman society? Is it ok for other Christians to be those things? Of course not. And it's not ok for them to be the husband of more than one wife, either. We can safely conclude this from Biblical teaching, without resorting to extra-Biblical tradition.
One it does not say Zipporah died. She MAY have died, well she may have not died. Again you haven't shown how the Ancient Israelites were opposed to polygamy so why do you assume Moses was monogamous and refrained from a second wife?

Two I'm not being dishonest. I gave a definition for "being without reproach" The word in the Bible used is reproach. But why should I take your interpretation and your scripture as authoritive? You gave me an English passage, NOT the original Greek.
"Many critics of polygamy also point to the Pauline epistles that state that church officials should be respectable, above reproach, and the husband of a single wife. (1 Timothy 3, Titus 1) hermeneutically, the Greek phrase mias gunaikos andra is an unusual Greek construction, capable of being translated in multiple ways, including (but not limited to): 1) "one wife man," (prohibiting plural marriage) or 2) "a wife man" (requiring elders to be married) or 3) "first wife man" (prohibiting divorcés from ordination).[30]"

Three why do you only go for the traits that all are supposed to have? You know some of the list for Timothy are things that are not required for everyone to be righteous before God. Again do all Christians have to be "able to teach"? Again a reason for Paul giving the command that Bishops and Deacons are the husbands of a wife with children is to show that they can run a household because running a Bishopric or a Church is larger and more difficult than just one household. Again you have to use outside the Bible sources to condemn polygamy because the Bible itself does not directly condemn or prohibit it. Hell even people like Martin Luther were able to conclude that the Bible does not prohibit polygamy. Yet modern day Protestants can't admit that they rely on tradition.

"Monogamy was the norm among Christians.[48][49] However, in the context of the sickness of a wife preventing matrimonial intercourse,[50] Martin Luther, the founder of the Protestant Reformation, wrote: "I confess that I cannot forbid a person to marry several wives, for it does not contradict the Scripture. If a man wishes to marry more than one wife he should be asked whether he is satisfied in his conscience that he may do so in accordance with the word of God. In such a case the civil authority has nothing to do in the matter.""


And if you're willing to make facetious arguments, you can argue that the Bible teaches meat is murder, that the Earth is flat, etc, etc.

Just because people can make 'an argument' doesn't mean it's credible or made in good faith.
No you can't. Show me where the Bible can teach that meat is murder? God gave man dominion over the Earth and allowed man to eat the flesh of animals, just with certain prohibitions like flesh with the lifeblood of the animal still in it, unclean animals, and animals sacraficed to idols. Heck God even requires animal sacrafice in the past(not anymore) but you can't show vegetarianism being required in the Bible.

I've heard that Jewish tradition said that mankind was not supposed to eat flesh before Noah's flood but I don't remember that in the Bible itself.


As for earth being flat I'm not familliar with that but you might be able to do that.

And again just because something isn't popular with western culture in the modern day or historically does not mean that it's against God's law.


This is surreal. I assumed they were troll accounts but I follow some trad type accounts and sometimes there are these weird "Christian/Trad" accounts in their replies telling them that they should stop being so narcissistic and how being a second or third or fourth wife is great and how King Solomon had multiple wives etc. I thought it was trolling... and it probably is... or just people perving out (or both) but maybe... just maybe, we got that non-Mormon (and non-ironic) Christian polygamist demo out there.
Aren't you atheist?
 

King Arts

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Wikipedia is bias in that it will always not favor Christianity
In some ways yes. It will say that Christians oppressed "Muh poor innocent brown Muslims and pagans!"

But for inter Christian wars and conflict it's not that bad. I mean what specifically are you saying that I linked is wrong?
 

Zachowon

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In some ways yes. It will say that Christians oppressed "Muh poor innocent brown Muslims and pagans!"

But for inter Christian wars and conflict it's not that bad. I mean what specifically are you saying that I linked is wrong?
Om just saying don't use it as a spice, use the sources it has, even if they are secondary.
Try and get first party sources.
Like the ones they quote to make your point so we can be sure things arnt taken out of context.
 

King Arts

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Om just saying don't use it as a spice, use the sources it has, even if they are secondary.
Try and get first party sources.
Like the ones they quote to make your point so we can be sure things arnt taken out of context.
I mean I do that when I do my schoolwork but these debates are supposed to be for fun you know. I think Wikipedia should be allowed as a source so long as the article itself isn’t obviously wrong and biased.
 

Zachowon

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I mean I do that when I do my schoolwork but these debates are supposed to be for fun you know. I think Wikipedia should be allowed as a source so long as the article itself isn’t obviously wrong and biased.
I would still recommend using the actual sources due to the fact it would allow a better understanding and allow you to make sure that others can find the same info and trust it over an editable article that can be used to misrepresent
 

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@Husky_Khan isn't atheistic, she is the Husky shaped demigoddess that is the embodiment of all of the trolls' and shit posters that have existed since the dawn of the internet mixed in with the wreathing anguish and foolery of their victims, which now includes you.

In all seriousness look at her post here for her religious views.
 

King Arts

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@Husky_Khan isn't atheistic, she is the Husky shaped demigoddess that is the embodiment of all of the trolls' and shit posters that have existed since the dawn of the internet mixed in with the wreathing anguish and foolery of their victims, which now includes you.

In all seriousness look at her post here for her religious views.
Damn Rick rolled.
 

DarthOne

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@Husky_Khan isn't atheistic, she is the Husky shaped demigoddess that is the embodiment of all of the trolls' and shit posters that have existed since the dawn of the internet mixed in with the wreathing anguish and foolery of their victims, which now includes you.

In all seriousness look at her post here for her religious views.

Well now I know you’re bullshiting me. There are No Girls on the Internet.

Outside of tumblr, TikTok and various fanfiction websites. :p
 

Husky_Khan

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@Husky_Khan spill. How many LOTR Legomances have you wrote and read? :p

In order to test out the Rifts/Palladium ruleset, especially how MDC (Mega Damage) rules work, we ran an encounter of having to defend Minas Tirith from a Reaper Destroyer or whatever the big ones are called from Mass Effect using a Rifts version of a DnD fantasy party since 5e conversion immediately looked too complicated.

It lasted about one encounter. :p

It was fun but we had no idea what we were doing. I've always wanted to run Rifts again. but then I realize I don't want to... Ever.

Oh this is offtopic... uhhhh I'm married to one of the players so I mean, you gotta make these things work. It's a metaphor. Uhhh Don't Fear the Reaper you know.
 

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