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Then again, men can fake being "alpha".A "shit test" is when a woman knowingly or unknowingly. Challenges a man by doing something that will{or should} rattle him. Bassically it's an "alphaness" test as your personality will dictate your response. There's a decent argument that feminism itself is a giant shit test for example. Unfortunately we western failed that tests quite hard.
The idea is to prove you will stand for yourself. Not that you'll slap her and call her a cunt. A vicious violent reaction that is overblown makes you look both creepy and dangerous.
And also that you won't bend under criticism.
Thing is, women judge your response on how well you navigate the grey middle-overreact and they'll think your some sort of creepy rapist in the making, underreact and your a loser or most charitably a man who can't or won't respond forcefully when called for.
I've also observed women will ask questions or make statements, and expect you give a certain response, or kind of response. Give the wrong sort of response-and its clear to her you don't get the hint. And thus she treats the date or whatever as just a social engagement to endure.
Its pretty obvious in the latter case.
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