Oppression implies that the women were not complicit in things.
The oppressed are
always complicit in their oppression, that doesn’t change the general trend. You are right however that most women likely were grateful for stability in a traditional society and so were not motivated to protest their subjection. Things can always get worse.
One derivative of my system of thought would be to observe that the women’s rights movement was an attempt to defend the sanctity of the hestia when male led democratic revolutions threatened it by destroying the traditional order.
In the 19th century, everyone knew that women were a great mass of support for God, Monarchy and Tradition. In the 1920s with female suffrage this became true. Women voted conservative, until the Eclipse. In ancient times under men, women would support the status quo because of the objective fact that the downward tendency of society would guarantee things got worse doing upheavals. This is a quite rational position.
Now, of course, with the end of traditional society, there’s nothing to lose, but the eclipse very specifically acted to destroy the moral sense of women.