There are certainly elements of truth in what you said.
Here is the thing. there are only so many simps to go around.
Simps?
I don't think you quite grasp the seriousness of what I was saying. One man can have one hundred wives. There is, historically speaking, always plenty of dick to go around. All the women capable of bearing children will find some man willing to feed them, however he treats them will be satisfactory to them (and he'll treat them relavively well by historical terms), and the men will take these women because they want children. The tribe that doesnt have as many children as it can support will disappear from the earth.
We are seeing unprecedented numbers of MGTOW
Anyone who actually sticks to a non-participatory position for their entire life rather than just as a temporary way of protecting themselves is a cultural non-entity, and wont effect the decision making process of the society.
And while a woman might become a "born again virgin", she will just be pretending. She won't actually think there is anything wrong with viewing a man as a wallet instead of a human, or think there is anything wrong with having a 4 digit bodycount, or do as much as society will allow her to get away with.
She, statistically, was always "pretending". There wasn't ever a clear cut line between "pretending" and "earnest" in her mind. "She" was just doing whatever she thought the power structure around her expected her to do. The government was her Husband in subconscious psychological terms, and she acted how her husband expected her to.
If the power structure changes, she'll instantly pivot to meet it's expectations, and feel happy to do so.
There’s a first time for everything, no matter how unlikely.
Essentially, you're this guy.
That's fine. He's clearly valuable to his tribe, they care about his feelings, he's definitely getting enough food. I'm sure he kicks a lot of ass. Here's the problem. This is also you.
You're getting choked unconscious by your local chieftain because you want satisfaction over practicality and wont take no for an answer. In the Chadocracy, you've just been out voted. You'll be chained up until you calm down and "see reason", a phrase which here means "stop openly voicing or acting upon your position".