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  1. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    I'm not saying stereotyping is bad. I'm saying that deciding to remain with your initial opinion despite learning individualized info or refusing to learn individualized info if it's easy & harmless to get is bad. Obviously, men and women are different. It's one of the biggest differences in...
  2. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    You don't know my life. Still, I've been hurt by people. Womankind as a group didn't all decide to hurt me (they can't agree on anything, how would they agree on that? /jk). Take the LGBTQ squad. If I see someone advertise that they in it, I tend to immediately stereotype them. But then if I...
  3. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    Yes. Him not looking at women as individuals, and instead grouping them up and treating them all the same way because of their gender, is the clearest step too far. Stereotyping is fine and can be useful, but not being able to overcome a stereotype give individual knowledge of a specific person...
  4. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    There isn't any, but that's for another thread. And it still wouldn't end up in a religion. I never expected it to? That's not why I'm a libertarian.
  5. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    There's literally no way to genuinely change that. And no, there's no need for nihilism. Seriously, the belief that some has that being areligious or athiest leads to nihilism is something I've never got. Yes, we don't have a higher power telling us what the point of our existence is, but we can...
  6. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    See, the problem with this for many, including me, is that we aren't non religious, but atheists. I see no evidence for God, and the only way I'd become religious would be lying, something I'm not willing to do. On top of this, there is a deeper, even more fundamental flaw. Believing in a...
  7. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    Yup. OkCupid, from what I've heard (I'm probably going to start using it), is actually pretty good at this. But we will see.
  8. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    Honestly, I'd recommend online dating. OK Cupid allows for a lot of question answering from what I've heard, and ability to self segregate away from SJWs is thus really nice. Problem for me is that there's a large overlap between SJWs and other things I want in a partner, even given I'm in...
  9. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    Eh, a good amount of self improvement is bunk, but I could definitely stand to get in shape, for example, especially with remote work meaning I don't walk to work anymore.
  10. Abhorsen

    MGTOW, Minimalism, dating and the Establishment reaction.

    Nothing wrong with not playing. I think the issue Stargazer has here is the halfway point: "sure, I'm going to fuck around, but also, spurn commitment." Personally, I don't have a moral problem with just doing pickup sex if you are clear about your intentions. It's just not for me (did it once...
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