Does anybody actually get further demotivated when others keep going “You can do it!!!” and force you into something with no results for too long?

[CarlManvers2019]

Because that’s something that feeds into my and their constant frustration for months to years on end when they try making me do and learn “simple” things even bit by bit and have zero results

Especially since they can’t seem to get or remotely accept that I may have a variation of some learning disability

Even when I try learning differently or get help from tutors and teachers

Hell, I figure out how to do stuff by looking for how other people do extremely similar stuff, only problem is half the time the stuff I got doesn’t look any bit similar to other guys’ subject questions

Anybody ever got stuck into that loop?

 

[Shipmaster Sane]

Because that’s something that feeds into my and their constant frustration for months to years on end when they try making me do and learn “simple” things even bit by bit and have zero results

Especially since they can’t seem to get or remotely accept that I may have a variation of some learning disability

Even when I try learning differently or get help from tutors and teachers

Hell, I figure out how to do stuff by looking for how other people do extremely similar stuff, only problem is half the time the stuff I got doesn’t look any bit similar to other guys’ subject questions

Anybody ever got stuck into that loop?

What is "too long"? Because it takes a long time and a lot of hard work to learn something.

 

[CarlManvers2019]

What is "too long"? Because it takes a long time and a lot of hard work to learn something.

A few weeks or months straight to even learn the basics of things like accounting, even WITH help, that’s just one example of the things I’ve been forced into

Other one was a few months to nearly three years straight of forcing me into boardroom meetings wherein I could not understand even the basics of what anyone was saying or even latch onto what was being said for a few minutes

And this was even with me being given some big textbook of “facts” that were “watered down” and I was told to go through the “basics” and I still couldn’t get anything even with “help” and me not having any distractions

Hell, I was even sent to a factory and had to endure the sweat and smoke for nearly more than a year to observe and “learn” and participate in meetings and I still couldn’t grasp all those “basics” they kept talking about and said kids could easily understand

Kept saying the way they were “teaching” me wasn’t different from school and college but in terms of “presentation” they really weren’t and hell they weren’t speaking nonstop in my original classes either

 

[Shipmaster Sane]

A few weeks or months straight to even learn the basics of things like accounting, even WITH help, that’s just one example of the things I’ve been forced into

Other one was a few months to nearly three years straight of forcing me into boardroom meetings wherein I could not understand even the basics of what anyone was saying or even latch onto what was being said for a few minutes

And this was even with me being given some big textbook of “facts” that were “watered down” and I was told to go through the “basics” and I still couldn’t get anything even with “help” and me not having any distractions

Hell, I was even sent to a factory and had to endure the sweat and smoke for nearly more than a year to observe and “learn” and participate in meetings and I still couldn’t grasp all those “basics” they kept talking about and said kids could easily understand

Kept saying the way they were “teaching” me wasn’t different from school and college but in terms of “presentation” they really weren’t and hell they weren’t speaking nonstop in my original classes either

You can resist anything for just about forever. You're going to have to accept that you can do stuff that you hate and really dont want to do. You could saw your own arm off, thats a fact, you could do that. That's not easier than forcing yourself to learn something.