To me, slurs used seriously are the grown up version of yo mama jokes. If you get mad because some said a mean word(tm), that’s your problem. And I know some words are taboo and I dont condone usage of it, but if usage of a word sends you into a rage or destroys your self image or something, there’s other problems to be looked at.
At least insults you have to be clever with for them to hurt but even then that’s a personal problem if mere words can so effortlessly destroy you.
Granted, Marines have some of the foulest conversations on earth so maybe I’m just desensitized to insults. Insults and slurs out of love for your friends is a wonderful thing