Girls also, you know...play sports and stuff. They don't all just sit around doing their nails all day. In fact all things considered many girls are higher energy and more motivated to go out and do stuff...than most men. mostly because they have a life time of positive reinforcement from doing...pretty much anything ever since they were little girls, which...most males have not gotten. but still
Point being, if you are that guy, girls will want to be around you and to do stuff with you. they'll even do things they don't normally do just to be around you because you give them energy. but that entire premise...depends on you being that guy. I learned from a young age that being a male meant having to compete; and that the competition is by no means fair given that everyone starts off with different genetics and different socio-economic situations in life. Nothing is given to you as a male; everything is contingent on your ability to out compete other males. If you can genetically and/or socio-economically out compete the vast majority of other males...life will be good to you. If not...life will be much harder on you. It's that simple; too many people bitching about this on the internet. yeah, I understand that hypergamy being so bad that the everyman cannot even get a girlfriend or the prospects of children is not a good thing for society. But a good part of why hypergamy has gotten so bad in the first place is because said everymen...have rolled over and allowed it to happen. they have allowed policies and social norms to be put into place that are against them; they have allowed ultra-rich internationalist companies and the governments they snuggle up with to get rich off of their misery. They have all allowed this to happen through being a bunch of low testosterone, complacent soy boys. The only way things change, is if the men that are getting hit hardest, make them change. and to be frank, we are not talking about "men" here, but a bunch of low t soy boy smartphone addicted nu male degenerates. even most of the so called "bearded tatooed right wing types" fit that description.
Young boys need to be taught to compete since they first learn to walk. Get enough young boys being raised to be men...and they will all be competing fiercely with each other yes...but will also be able to cooperate with each other and build functional communities. communities filled with men like this...will keep any meddling governments and corporate interests in line. and their women will start seeing them as men, and respecting them as such.