And where is this fence, and who decided that's where it would be?
Not saying this to you personally, but the problem I have with the "stay in your lane" rhetoric is that the sort of people who use it tend in my experience to be non-agreement-capable on where the lanes are supposed to be, and what is on either side of them.
Increasingly, the Secular Left seems incapable of respecting any boundaries or borders, or following any rules, even their own.
Yes, I've seen the question asked: what exactly do conservatives actually conserve?
Nothing.
The conservative movement failed, they slowed down the damage but they ultimently failed.
The next phase is populism, which will just be a grand alliance against a left that has lost its mind.
When this phase burns out, people will look around at the damage and any and all experiementation will end. The horrors of what happen will shell shock people and you will have a forceful return to tradition. This will happen in the west, it will likely happen in the east and social experimentation will be not only frowned upon but treated with abject horror and contempt.
This is the end of modernity and it has happened before in east asia, in the roman era and in the era that precided anquity in the middle east. A civilization can only experiment so much so long before the society as a whole says no more.
Right now were all fighting to see what changes get added to tradition and what vanishes forever.
Good news, if your black, asian, hispanic, white Western civilization is actually not racist at a foundational level your going to be fine. A lot of other things are up in the air but that's pretty firmly settled.