Admittedly, people our age (90-00's) who were homeschooled are pre-selected to be the 2% most socially awkward people. The share of people who really had a problem with 90s public schools but also couldn't just send them to a private school which met their needs was very small: private schools...
Example? Your chastizing Republicans for something I don't think I've really seen them do. Are we talking about enterpising drug dealers? Artists? Many "artists" are actually lazy selfish bumbs who don't want to do what's actually necessary to be successful. For example, making a living in arts...
The lefts meme strength is much less in humor memes, but in the more formal meme definition of ideas and mind viruses: "Diversity, equity, inclusion". I don't think you can make that fun, but by god it has certainly penetrated into everything.