Well, the US usually starts little wars half the world away from its borders. On the other hand, Russia is facing a neighboring country, led by forces that came to power in 2014 under dubious circumstances.
Its not like the Russian establishment asked before the Libya and Syria deployments either.
Close, distant, doesn't matter.
A country, that's been subjected to at least two decades of militant nationalist and russophobic propaganda (let's face it - propaganda, heavily financed by the West). On the other hand, for centuries, Russian and Ukrainian people lived side by side/formed mixed families. In the Soviet days, Russians and Ukrainians fought the Nazis together; built new factories and cities; explored space; made movies and published books; wrote and read sci fi together... I'm Russian/Ukrainian. I live in Moscow and know full well that it wasn't Russia that started the current crisis. There's no animosity towards Ukrainians in Russia and Putin and his team know full well of the human/cultural importance of Russian/Ukrainian ties.
Yes, yes, i know that worldview. The problem with it is, that the Russian side doesn't really ask the Ukrainian side whether they want to be considered part of the same culture or not, as shown here.
Russia has that problem with many other nations too.
Which is where the mythical effectiveness of "russophobic propaganda" comes from.
There is no greater boon to "russophobic propaganda" than Russia's demonstrated attitude towards its neighbor's sovereignty.
Right now, the people of Donbass suffer and die for their refusal to betray their friends and relatives, their history and ideals. For daring to remain normal, equally open to Russian and Western culture, instead of sliding into pig-headed nationalism-cum-fascism.
No, people in Donbass now suffer and die because they are being governed by Moscow acceptable warlords. They supported them, because they thought after the war tones down, in few years Moscow will annex them and sponsor rebuilding their part of country up to Russian standards of wealth and infrastructure, which are somewhat better than Ukrainian ones always were.
Unfortunately for them, Putin remembers how much did it cost to rebuild Chechenya cost after the war, so he's not that eager about this, and dragging the conflict on has other uses too.
All the same, while supporting Donetsk and Luhansk, Putin is not thinking in terms of annexing Ukraine.
Everyone knows Russia doesn't want the western chunk of Ukraine, where most of the nationalists are located, it would be a very painful occupation, so lets not speak in technicalities. According to "NATO propaganda" itself, Putin has an invasion plan drawn up, divided in 3 stages, realization of which can be put on hold at each stage, based on how fighting and international politics turn out, and even the most ambitious, full 3 stage variant covers something around half of Ukraine's territory, rather than the whole place.
War will only become a possibility, if the US and NATO attempt to turn Ukraine into a launch pad for missiles/continue to support Ukraine's actions against Donbass, which even now continue to cause civilian deaths and injuries.
And the Donbass separatists totally don't cause civilian deaths and injuries, right...
So what US and NATO missiles are Baltic States and Poland launchpads for?
Who the hell do you think NATO is, some kind of western version of Hamas?
But, come what may, for Russia, Ukrainian crisis is not some video game or a foreign adventure with a chance of gaining influence/resources. It's a wound that needs attentive healing...
Very, very expensive healing. Which is what the locals' miscalculation came from. No one wants to pay for that, and Russia would rather just encourage emigration to fill its own demographic shortages, better russified Ukrainians than importing migrants from the Turkic, often Muslim ex-soviet states to the south.
Also, I would disagree on the unimportance of general population's attitude tow the elite's plans to start a war. This may be true for the US with its shenanigans on other continents. Things are quite different in the case of Russia and Ukraine
You think that, yet talk about propaganda, and still accurately regurgitate the Russian government approved vision of the Ukrainian Civil War...